Oprah's Advice On Men


  • If a man wants you then nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

  • Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

  • Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from heartache.

  • Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

  • Slower is better.

  • Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

  • If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be friends! A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

  • Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

  • Don't stay because you think it will get better. You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

  • The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

  • Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

  • Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

  • Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

  • If something bothers you, speak up.

  • Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

  • You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

  • Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

  • Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

  • Never let a man define who you are.

  • Never borrow a man who belongs to someone else. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

  • A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

  • All men are NOT dogs.

  • You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way street.

  • You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

  • You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.

  • Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

  • Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

  • Never move into his mother's house.

  • Never co-sign for a man.

  • Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

  • Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

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Jaymee WINS

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